To me "best friend" is a term only used in our younger days, say primary school. Back in those days, I have a best friend and a 2nd best friend. But we went our separate ways ever since we got posted to different streams. When I got promoted to secondary school, I did not managed to find a best friend. But I've got a bunch of good friends though, which has now became my very good old pals-ASHLY & FRIENDS, and many friends whom I still keep in touch right now are good friends that I'll always treasure. So I told myself that I do not wish to have any best friend, a few good friends would be enough to see you through your life, giving you support and care. I did not give anyone nor myself a chance to be best friends because I did not want to get hurt when we part or when we don't keep in touch. I'd encountered a pretty close friend, but eventually got to face the fact that we belonged to 2 different worlds altogether.
I guess I tried hard to get along with her, helping her within my own means, but it always turns out that she usually looks for me when she's in trouble. I mean I would love to help and share the woes, I hope that she can also share pleasant things with me. That's apparently not the case. She betrayed my trust and gave me a good stab. My dad gave me a good analogy, and it knocked a pretty great deal of sense outta me. He said, " This friend of yours is probably like a chicken that shits but doesn't lay eggs." Hmm... quite true.... She rather shares the good stuff with other people than with me. Anyway, I'm really glad that such "friends" are no longer around me.
Now, I really found a true friend. A friend who supports me spritually, emotionally, physically and financially. Always trusting and helping me. She shares my happiness and my woes... And I treats her like my sister, always looking out for her, saving the best for her. She stood out for me when I was being misunderstood, listened to me when I was sad, supported me when I fell, backed me up in my career. She never complained even if it means taking up her personal time or contributing out of her own pocket. I really appreciate it very very much and I'll definitely give her more than she deserves. Cheers to our lasting friendship, Clare!
Oh.. anyway she's not aware of my blog cos she seldom surfs the web.:)
I guess I tried hard to get along with her, helping her within my own means, but it always turns out that she usually looks for me when she's in trouble. I mean I would love to help and share the woes, I hope that she can also share pleasant things with me. That's apparently not the case. She betrayed my trust and gave me a good stab. My dad gave me a good analogy, and it knocked a pretty great deal of sense outta me. He said, " This friend of yours is probably like a chicken that shits but doesn't lay eggs." Hmm... quite true.... She rather shares the good stuff with other people than with me. Anyway, I'm really glad that such "friends" are no longer around me.
Now, I really found a true friend. A friend who supports me spritually, emotionally, physically and financially. Always trusting and helping me. She shares my happiness and my woes... And I treats her like my sister, always looking out for her, saving the best for her. She stood out for me when I was being misunderstood, listened to me when I was sad, supported me when I fell, backed me up in my career. She never complained even if it means taking up her personal time or contributing out of her own pocket. I really appreciate it very very much and I'll definitely give her more than she deserves. Cheers to our lasting friendship, Clare!
Oh.. anyway she's not aware of my blog cos she seldom surfs the web.:)
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